As New Years approaches, we make the common type of resolution: Lose weight. Sure, we could lose a couple of pounds and knock off several inches off our waistlines. We can impress our spouses some, or shed off the dreaded freshman 15 so we can get half-naked during spring break and not feel embarrassed about it. It is seen on television, in internet advertisment boasting “Learn one weird trick, to lose 28lbs!” or looking through a Victoria Secret catalog with all the beautiful and fit models flashing the newest trends in lingerie. And I want to stress the fit aspects of these models indefinitely.
Society has been changing it’s message to the masses about what being fit is. It is transitioning from being beautiful and thin to being gorgeous and athletic. This can be seen through numerous mediums such as Victoria Secret and Cosmopolitan. But another such medium that seems to be setting the new standard is Crossfit. The trainers and entrepreneurs under that sphere of philosophy have been using their fit athletes and trainees as impressive displays of the new ideal physique. It creates that perfect image in our minds, that drives our superegos to achieve that is much stronger than what we see in magazines and The View.
But I am here to tell you that this has no effect on the population whatsoever and is inversely driving more people into obesity.
How? The transition from the view of thin being beautiful to the athletic look being beautiful doesn’t change the fact that overweight and obese individuals will not change their habits. That is because, the message is still forcing the idea of health and fitness on individuals. If anything, we as a society have driven overweight and obese individuals into their addictions of food. And the gallup.com statistics shows that obesity has risen by 1% which is huge. It is the largest jump in rates since 2009 (1) and this vicious cycle has a large part of it.
If you truly think that you are never going to look as good as the Victoria Secret models or as lean, strong, and athletic as Mark Wahlberg in The Fighter or even just lose enough pounds so you can bring your cholesterol in control then I would like you to try this before ever setting foot on a treadmill or a gym for that matter:
The recently famous author and entrepreneur Tim Ferris published a book called The Four Work Week, and elaborated on the importance of elimination. The exercise he demonstrates in that particular chapter is called a media fast. Here is how it works.
For one week, you will refrain from:
- Newspapers, magazines, audiobooks, or nonmusic radio
- News websites as well as social media
- Television but can watch one hour of pleasure viewing in the evening
- Web surfing unless it is for a task that is work related or has to be done now ( i.e. paying a bill online, answering work email, etc.)
- Reading books except for one hour of fiction before bedtime
The exercise described in the book stresses the importance of selective ignorance, or focusing on media that matters to us. This fast was modified to completely block out society’s relentless messaging and influence so we can decide if we truly want to commit to losing weight. If you ever decide to take this fast, the further you go with this, the more clear and concise your reasoning behind your decision to lose weight.
Which brings up another point that many will find unusual and that is… it is okay to be fat.
Being fat, regardless of the factors you have or don’t have much control over, is still a choice. Metabolic diseases can be controlled, genetic factors only have so much sway, and there is a million modification exercises for the morbidly obese. But when the haters are silenced, the glimpses of bikini clad super models, and movie stars with rock hard abs strolling around on Venice Beach are faded into a blackness void you are left with what makes you happy. Why should we let others dictate how we live our lives?
If there is more to love and you have important people in your life that admire who you are regardless, then be happy. No one should tell you otherwise, even the ones you love.
But if the complications and inconveniences of being overweight and obese is making you UNHAPPY, then if you are a sane human being you would go after something that will make you happy and that would be putting the effort into the losing the weight.
Before you make your new years resolution, I would do what is consider wrong and not do what the rest of society is doing by making a resolution at all. Instead, celebrate New Years Eve and forget about everything you read on this article. Then when the good cheer of the holidays wears off, you will start the media fast during the weeks of January. That way when you make the decision, the constant bombardment of media trying to convince you to get fit and follow uniform will be at a all time low.
The masses idea of beauty, health, and fitness will take on many forms but an individual will never change unless they make the commitment internally. Once someone comes up with the idea on their own, they are more than likely to get it and consistently workout longer than someone who just workouts because they feel obligated to do so by some external influence.
What are the reasons why you workout? Do you think that blocking out the majority of media long enough to make a decision to become healthier necessary? And if you ever tried doing this type of fasting, what are your thoughts after successfully performing this?
References
1.) Sharpe, Lindsey. “U.S. Obesity Rate Climbing in 2013.”Gallup Well-Being. N.p., 1 Nov 2013. Web. 20 Dec 2013. <http://www.gallup.com/poll/165671/obesity-rate-climbing-2013.asp&xgt;.